Whoever oppresses the poor shows contempt for their Maker, but whoever is kind to the needy honors God. ~Proverbs 14:31
Here's a riddle for you. What costs you nothing to give, yet makes you richer in the giving? The answer? Kindness!
In my comings and goings, no matter where I find myself, I try to be aware of the demeanor of the people around me. What expressions do their faces display? Do they seem worried, preoccupied, frustrated, detached? Armed with a smile, I will try to make eye-contact. It's amazing how quickly an unexpected smile will be flashed in return.
Many times, too, when the situation seems appropriate, I'll actually speak my kindness aloud. For example, earlier this year, Danny and I are dining out and I spot a young couple with a toddler who has the most stunning eyes and excellent table manners to match. I approach them and offer my sincere compliments regarding their child's behavior. Their thank-yous and sweet smiles are the only reward I could ever want or need.
I'm willing to wager that all of you who regularly visit my blog practice random acts of kindness in your daily lives as much as you possibly can. I can tell not only from the encouragement you give me in your comments, but also from the content of your varied and meaningful blogs. So many of you highlight kindness in words and in the photos you share. I hope you know, dear friends, that you are making this world a better place with every post you pen.
In Galatians 5:22-23, Paul lists kindness as one of the fruits of the Spirit. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. And we know as believers that the source of these virtues does not have its origin in sinful humanity, but comes from God through Christ Jesus and the Holy Spirit. We are only able to nurture these fruits horizontally if first we seek the vertical: a living relationship with the Lord.
As Solomon states, when we are kind to the needy (and I would argue that we are ALL needy), we are honoring God. To do otherwise is to pose the lie that we don't need our heavenly Father every single moment of every single day.
When we intentionally practice kindness toward others, we are doing our part, no matter how small, to bring God's kingdom to fruition here on earth.
And sometimes, all it takes is a smile.
Amen!
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Dear Martha, this is such a lovely and inspiring ❤️ post. A kind word or action can make a person's day more enjoyable...and even a smile can brighten someone's 😊 day and make them feel loved, appreciated or simply noticed. I remember Glen Campbell's song 🎵 well, I have hummed or sung it to myself many times. The Proverbs verse is so true. Thank you so much for sharing, dear friend. God bless you 🙏
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Linda, for your most kind comment here today. We all need to feel acknowledged and affirmed, and sometimes a sincere smile is all that's required to make someone's day.
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What a wonderful post. One of your best, Martha; with good advice. I liked the song too - extra bonus. Many thanx.
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When I was growing up, Glen Campbell was one of my favorites, Victor, and I'm so glad I was able to post the video for everyone. I'm especially glad that this post spoke to your heart, my friend.
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I also keep my eyes peeled to see who I might give a "lift" to. There are so many walking around with 100 pound weights on their shoulders and you can see it in their face or demeanor. If I can give someone a lift by giving a smile or offering to help in some way, I will do it. 3 Dog Night also sang a song called "Try a Little Tenderness." Might be the same one you have posted. Have a blessed day Martha!
ReplyDeleteKnowing you, Bill, I'm not surprised at all that you take the time to notice others and offer to help whenever possible. We can never underestimate the power a simple smile has to brighten someone's day. And I do remember that song by Three Dog Night. I guess that dates us - LOL!
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Sometimes, simply telling a person hello or good morning can make their day.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely, it can, Glynn. May we be mindful of those around us that need a dose of kindness.
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Amen, Martha! My sweet mother showed me, by example, the power of a smile or kind word. I can hear her voice now, "It doesn't cost a thing."
ReplyDeleteCurious. I was just thinking yesterday while at the VA, the 'older' generation is more likely to make eye contact and return a smile than young people. Even at the grocery. Have you noticed that? Hopefully, we can all encourage others by example.
I have noticed that, Myra, and I think it might have a lot to do with the Covid generation and the wearing of masks. I love what you shared here about your mother, too. So full of wisdom and common sense!
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I love your post today! Doesn't kindness give us hope?
ReplyDeleteOh, yes, Christine, being kind to others or having others be kind to us does fill me with the best kind of hope.
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Ah what a great post Martha...kindness is truly a wonderful gift to give and we all certainly can afford to give it. God Bless you for sharing this meditation and your good words. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Debbie! It makes me happy knowing this post spoke to your heart.
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Loved this Martha and so true. I am a smiley person naturally and I always make that extra effort to make eye contact and smile. So many people are hurting so much so, that once they receive the smile, they don’t know how to react. Eyes down, then they look up again and either smile back while some may hurry away. My heart hurts for those who are starved for kindness and understanding. We hear so often about rude people when out and about but I have to say, a simple genuine smile can diffuse even the crankiness of souls.
ReplyDeleteReally people just want to be seen which is half the battle.
There are so many hurting people out in the world, Debby, and the least we can do is make the effort to brighten their day with a genuine smile. Yes, some may not pick up on our kindness, but we can know that we tried and say a silent prayer for them. Only God knows what is truly going on inside them.
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I loved that song and Glen Campbell - I do remember him.
ReplyDeleteWhat you say is extremely true. I wish some of my family members would realize that. We had a couple issues with that recently.
Everyone including ourselves, would appreciate a kind word.
There isn't a one of us who doesn't need a touch of sincere kindness every day, Sandie. As I was writing this post, Glen Campbell's song kept running through my head, so I knew I had to post it at the end. He was one of my favorite performers growing up. And isn't it so true that our own family members can be the most difficult when it comes to showing kindness. I pray that situation will resolve itself.
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I so much totally agree! We always carry a certain small amount of money to give to the homeless when we pass the ones holding signs, as well. Jesus said when we help the least of those, we are helping Him! I believe that lifting others up is part of our purpose here, of course along with worshipping God.
ReplyDeleteA while back, Danny and I started doing the same thing, carrying cash in case we saw someone in genuine need. It breaks our hearts, too. Fortunately, in our town, we don't have a lot of homeless folks. What we both give to on a monthly basis is Tunnels2Towers which serves the wounded service men/first responders and their families should someone die or be severely injured in the line of duty. It's a fantastic organization!
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Oh yes, a smile doesn't cost a penny to give, and it reaps so many rewards! Sometimes that is all it takes to brighten someone's day. And yes, making eye contact and smiling and maybe saying hello to a stranger...it seems to surprise so many, because kindness isn't being practiced as much these days. So many have their faces stuck in their cell phones that they don't even look around them. To me that is very sad. Thank you for this good post. It makes me want to go out and smile at someone today! (actually, I already did at Walmart. Amazing how people open up when you smile!)
ReplyDeleteThey certainly can open up when they see you smiling at them, Pamela. I love how you just did that at Walmart. And talking to strangers? Yes, I did that just today when we were at Danny's dermatology appointment. I recall, too, that one day in Publix, I saw a woman about my age wearing a Christian T-shirt; I stopped and told her how much I loved it and I think we chatted for at least ten minutes! We never know the beautiful people God will put in our path when we decide to show kindness and caring.
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Even though we've never met in person and I've never had the privilege of enjoying a face-to-face exchange with you, I smiled as I read you account of your interactions with others because I had already picutured you exactly that way. Like you, I love offering encouraging comments to people Diane and I meet and seeing our smiles returned. I thank people quite frequently forr their bright smiles and pleasant demeanor and remind them that because of their kindness the world around us became a more wonderful place for a few minutes. So, does the world around here, dear sister, when Diane and I get to hear from you. We're continuing to pray for both of you,of course, as you continue Danny''s road back to full functioning and active ministry.
ReplyDeleteDanny and I may never have met Diane and you in person, but sometimes, I think that's what blogs are all about. Long distance friendships are forged when we smile across the miles and connect in God's purpose for our lives. As ever, I'm so glad to know that this post resonated with you, Ron, and I'm not surprised that the smiles you readily share with others, and receive in return, brighten their lives and yours.
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A smile lightens up a person's day for sure. Nice post, Martha.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Bill, for the smile you offered to us all here.
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This is such a lovely post, Martha! If only the whole world would just nurtue the fruits of the Holy Spirit!! Amen!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Terri, for your kind, affirming words! Yes, what a beautiful world this would be if only we would practice the fruits of the Spirit.
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Beautiful thoughts here, Martha. I find myself wanting to grow the fruit of kindness in my life more and more. I see the importance of it in our daily lives. Sweet story about the toddler. I pray for divine encounters daily when I'm out and about, and yes, even a smile shows kindness in the most simplest way. God bless!
ReplyDeleteIt amazes me, too, Karen, knowing that a simple smile can brighten someone's day. In your travels with Friday's Forever, I'm sure y'all have many beautiful opportunities to share kindness with everyone you encounter. Let's all do our best to show a little kindness!
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So true, Martha. Those random acts of kindness are so important. As you say, even a smile. Every person has a need to be noticed and cared about, and we never know what battle each one is going through. This reminds me of Mother Teresa's quote: "Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love." Love, hugs and blessings to you!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Trudy, for reminding us of that wonderful quote by Mother Teresa - it's the perfect fit! And yes, every one of us needs to feel noticed and acknowledged. Life is too short not to do so.
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Oops. I forgot to put my name with that comment...
ReplyDeleteNo worries, Trudy! I saw this when I answered your original comment.
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A very true and meaningful post my dear! And thank you so much for your visits which I appreciate so much! I'm glad we enjoy a walk together...
ReplyDeleteHonestly, Cloudia, I look forward to seeing your blog each and every day as it's always uplifting. I'm glad to know this post meant a lot to you. Let's continue to enjoy the walk!
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this is wonderful Martha. we never know what a few kind words can do for others. it always feels great to lift others up and to bring encouragement to them. I think especially so for young parents who are trying their best in a world that is filled with so much negativity. Bless your heart .. you are such a wonderful person
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Shug, for your kind words of affirmation and encouragement here. I agree that young parents always need to hear when they are doing something right for and with their children. After all, these little ones are our future and they deserve all the recognition we can give to them. Keep smiling, and know how much I treasure you!
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Good post, Martha. Kindness is in short supply, it seems. But today we encountered a particularly kind woman at a business we visited. On the way home, I felt like crying with relief to experience her sweet spirit in dealing with us. Harshness really wounds but kindness is a balm!
ReplyDeleteBarbara, you are spot on! Harsh words or actions always wound, but a simple act of kindness is the cure for such negativity. Thanks for sharing your recent experience that validates the value of day-to-day kindness in others. Let's not allow kindness to become an endangered value in society.
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Amen! Kindness is one of the attributes of love. God is love. Good post.
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It is exactly that, Jim. God is the eternal example of loving kindness. The least we can do is honor that and by so doing, give glory to His name.
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Amen to kindness. One smile to a stranger sometimes makes all the difference. Love and blessings, friend.
ReplyDeleteWe never know when our smiles will be a blessing to someone, Debra, so that's all the more reason to keep on smiling. Let's always show a little kindness whenever we can.
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I agree on that! A beautiful post reminding us to be kind to everyone because we never know the battles they are fighting. Hugs to you, dear! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for taking the time to leave a comment! No, we can't possibly know what others are going through at the moment, and a simple smile could change their day for the better.
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Kindness comes naturally for some of us, but I have known people who find kindness odd and are all about what's in it for them and if they see no benefit from acting kind the don't bother.
ReplyDeleteSad, but true, Jo-Anne. People who think like that have usually been hurt badly in their lives and can't wrap their heads around being kind to others for the sake of kindness alone. They are the most in need of a smile.
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Amen, so beautifully said, friend. In a world gone mad with rudeness and hostility, may we be the hands and feet and lips of Jesus as we interact with others. It costs us so little to extend kindness . . . especially as it's already a fruit of the Spirit that is within.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this heavenly nudge. I hope you guys are both doing well.
Thanks so much, Linda, for your wonderful comment here. Yes, it costs so little when we offer kindness to another person, yet it can be just the treasure their day needs. Rudeness and/or hostility have no place in God's kingdom, do they? As you so aptly put it, let's resolve to be the hands, feet and lips of Jesus here on earth.
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I'm late in replying Martha. I'm recovering from rotator cuff surgery and I have to type with one hand. I agree with you and sometimes all it takes is a smile to brighten someone's day. I love it when a stranger smiles at me though I wonder if inwardly they are really laughing at my strange attire because I wear long dresses and a headcovering.😆
ReplyDeleteI'm glad to hear you're recovering from rotator cuff surgery, Regina. That can't be easy, especially when it reduces you to using only one hand. I'll definitely keep you in prayers as you heal!
DeleteAnd if I were you, when people give you a smile, just take it at face value and smile right back at them.
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Olá, Martha
ReplyDeleteQue linda postagem. Gentileza é atenção e cuidado com o outro, sua atitude de manter contato visual com as pessoas no cotidiano é um exemplo do amor de Deus, o elogio e o sorriso são excelentes, faz um bem enorme. Amei conhecer essa canção no vídeo, obrigada por compartilhar, um forte abraço.
I agree, Lucinalva, that when we show kindness to one another, we are being a living, breathing example of God's love for each of us. Glad you enjoyed the song, too!
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a smile can be so powerful and this post proved this once again!!!
ReplyDeleteYes, Jean, smiles are powerful tools to brighten someone's day.
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Thank you for the reminder, Martha, that kindness is kingdom business. God commanded us to be kind (Ephesians 4:32) because it's good for the giver and as well as the receiver. Just as secular research has found value in gratitude and prayer, I wonder if they've ever studied the value of kindness? I'm thinking our brains must light up on this action too!
ReplyDeleteKindness is definitely a reciprocal act, Nancy, that benefits the giver and receiver at the same time. I love how you called it kingdom business, because that's exactly what it is. Yes, I have no doubt that without some type of official study, we can conclude that being kind to someone sends infinite ripples of good will, God's will, into the world.
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Indeed, my friend, smiles. Wishing you a lovely Saturday my friend.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Linda! Wishing you the same in all kindness.
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Dear Friend,
ReplyDeletein the rush of caring for my husband medical condition, I have missed way too many of your posts! I just want you to know why I haven't been around. He's going into care today at least temporarily and it is the hardest day of my life. But I will carry on with the blog because it's so important in my heart that I do so. I love you. Thanks for your understanding and your wonderful visits aloha
Oh, Cloudia, how my heart is breaking as I read these words of your devotion and love for your husband. To hear that this is the hardest day of your life attests to your commitment and sacrifice to see to his health and placing his needs above yours. There is no need for apologies. I love you, too! And believe me, I understand in more ways than I've ever expressed here at this blog. You have my prayers!
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Always so blessed to stop by for a visit with you Martha! I love the video and song you shared. That song is one I remember singing years ago! Like you, I love to watch people, and smile at those who need a smile. Sometimes that is all it takes to brighten someone's day. We can be an encourager wherever we go. Thank you for the timely reminder! Many blessings to you dear friend!
ReplyDeleteOh, Marilyn, you've certainly showed me a lot of kindness in your comment here! Wasn't Glen Campbell a wonderful vocalist and guitarist? I'm so glad, though I'm not at all surprised, that you smile at others whenever you can. You embody sunshine and the love of Jesus!
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I love that Glen Campbell song. It is on my list to upload at some point!
ReplyDeleteGlen Campbell was an absolute favorite of mine growing up, Cheryl. It was so sad to hear that he developed Alzheimer's before he passed away.
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