Monday, March 16, 2026

No Matter How Old



Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you.  I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you. ~Isaiah 46:4


When our children first begin to crawl, we take every precaution to provide a safe environment for them to explore.  We place protective plugs in electrical outlets, move breakable items to unreachable shelves and keep floors immaculate, free of any debris that could entice a curious hand-to-mouth encounter.

The crawling stage is rapidly followed by what I call the "pulling-up" stage, the precursor to actually attempting to walk.  I vividly recall keeping coffee and end tables clear of anything that a child would find tempting to touch other than a toy that belongs to her.  When Virginia, Savannah and Alexandra, our three granddaughters, visit with us during these particular stages of development, Danny and I spread a large down comforter over the stone hearth of our fireplace so the girls won't run the risk of falling and hitting their heads.

Yes, when our children are young, we do everything possible to child-proof our homes.  But as Danny and I move up in years, we've realized we now need to take conscious measures to senior-proof our home.  What do I mean by that?

In a previous post, What Truly Matters, I write about the checklist we recite before leaving the house in order for Danny to avoid going out in his "hobo" shoes.  There is now one more item to add to our litany - make sure the stove is off!

The other day, we blithely leave the house to go to the grocery store.  Danny fixes some scrambled eggs just before we depart.  When we return and ascend the stairs from the garage to the main floor, something doesn't smell right.  Danny instinctively heads for the kitchen.  Lo and behold!  He has left the burner on (albeit very low) under the cast iron skillet where his eggs were cooked!  Thankfully, with only butter in the pan, and very little of it at that, we are spared what could have been an epic catastrophe.

To ensure that this never happens again, Danny grabs his trusty labeling tool to mark the dials as you can see in the header photo.  When the green tape is facing up, we can rest assured that the stove dials are in the off position and we are good to go.

It certainly seems that our loving Father is sustaining us in these days and rescuing us from so many precarious situations.  Like a watchful parent, He doesn't wish harm upon any of His precious children, no matter how old we are or how much older we become.

Knowing that makes every day ahead promising, reassuring and filled with the hope we can only find in Him.

Amen!

71 comments:

  1. It is good to know of God's watchful care. I sometimes imagine God as a father who is tapping his foot watching me blunder and all the way saying, "Ask me. Please just ask." Nope. I falter and then realize He was there all the time. (Good luck with that spam ahead of me. Why can't they just stay in their hole?)

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    1. Yep, Bill, that was spam, alright. I finally figured out how to completely delete it, so it no longer shows up. And you are so right about our Father being right there with us, simply waiting for us to ask for His help. Such a loving God we serve!
      Blessings!

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  2. I'm surprised that God our Father does not despair with us sometimes. Remember when Jesus wrote with His finger in the sand? He wrote: "Will they never learn?" I think He was showing human despair as well as divine love.

    God bless.

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    1. Thankfully, God loves us not because of who we are but because He loves us anyway. The Gospel does not tell us outright what Jesus wrote in the sand, Victor, but I do love your interpretation of what it might be. When we think of Jesus as being fully human and fully divine, that makes perfect sense.
      Blessings!

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  3. Aging requires its own set of guardrails, some harkening back to the time of toddlers. I speak from experience.

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    1. I'm glad to know that we aren't the only ones who need guardrails, Glynn. What happened with Danny (and my not noticing) has been such a wake up call. Thank goodness God is watching over these gray hairs!
      Blessings!

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  4. Oh Martha, thank God everything was otherwise fine other than a huge wake-up call. That is always a scare. Good idea, what Danny did. Your post will stick with me and hopefully remind me to check the stove burners when we leave. Danny's wake-up call can wake us all up!
    Blessings for a wonderful week ahead.

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    1. Thank you, Debby! I'm glad our experience was a wake up call for you, too. Since Danny does most of the cooking, especially at dinner, he's always checked the stove before he sits down to eat, making sure everything is off. It didn't happen, of course, this one time. With the green tags, it won't happen again!
      Blessings!

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  5. Another item to check before we leave the house: Are the burners turned off! Thank you for sharing your experience, to help us avoid a dangerous situation. / Indeed, praise God for his watchful care over all who love him (Psalm 145:20)!

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    1. We are thanking Him every day for just that, Nancy. Yes, we are so grateful this situation didn't turn out for the worst. Glad to know that you will be checking your stove from now on before leaving the house.
      Blessings!

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  6. Great idea -I have left the oven or butner on rushing around it is dangerous-Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com

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    1. I'm glad you liked this idea, Christine. Frankly, it's not even wise to leave the kitchen when you have the stove on.
      Blessings!

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  7. Oh goodness, a close call!! The way your stove is made, it seems very hard to tell how you have the burners set! But the green labels are a great idea!

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    1. It is difficult to tell with the stainless steel and small numbers/letters on the dials, Ginny. I'm so glad Danny thought to label the knobs after our very close call.
      Blessings!

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  8. Thanks so much for your kind words, Sandie. From what I'm seeing here, it's not so uncommon to do this, but dangerous all the same. So glad you caught it when Rick happened to leave the burner on. Yes, we felt that God was most certainly looking out for us not just that day, but so many others, too. We need to seek Him always.
    Blessings!

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    1. It was quite the scare, indeed, Teresa. God was certainly looking out for us.
      Blessings!

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  10. It will be very interesting to realize, once we are inside Heaven's gates, how many times, and how, our Lord protected us while in this life.

    Those green labels are a good idea and can be seen from some distance (across the room).

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    1. Oh, yes it will, Barbara! When I pause to consider how many snares and troubles the Lord has allowed us to avoid, I can't help but thank Him and give Him the glory. These labels are certainly working for us!
      Blessings!

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  11. Oh my, that must have been scary, Martha. I'm so grateful it turned out well. Love and blessings to you!

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    1. I can't even begin to tell you how scary it was, Trudy, but we were certainly recipients of God's grace in this instance. We are grateful beyond words.
      Blessings!

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  12. Dear Martha, I am glad this turned out well, dear friend 🧡

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    1. We are so grateful for God's protection, Linda.
      Blessings!

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  13. Whew! Not long ago I did something that I never in a million years would have thought: Warmed the stove-top to meld congealed grease but turned away to finish washing the luncheon dishes. Yep. Seconds before what probably would have been a significant grease fire, the smoke alarms began a cacophony, and I had an honest come-to-Jesus moment right there. I love Danny's idea. Not only do we need Jesus, but one another!

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    1. Oh, no, Myra! I'm so, so glad that you detected this before it became a disaster for you. It simply proves that when we are doing anything in the kitchen, we can't turn our backs for a moment. When Danny is both grilling outside and has the burner on for something frying on the inside, I stand watch over the stove. Great precaution! We do need both Jesus and one another.
      Blessings!

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  14. Martha, during this time of Lent, it reminds us how God rescues us. I love this analogy here. And I'm so glad this event wasn't as bad as it could have been. I've always been a little OCD. I recheck the doors at night to make sure they are locked and I've been known to go to the stove top and do a mental check with the knobs: off, off, off, off. God bless, dear friend.

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    1. Oh, how I hear you, Karen! Danny always checks the doors before he turns in at night and has been a stickler for even saying aloud before dinner that everything on the stove is turned off. It was the time of the day and the need to get out that put him off guard. Well, thankfully, not anymore! And no better time than Lent to remember God's gracious rescue of His beloved children from the harms they would do to themselves.
      Blessings!

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  15. Simple but effective measures like Danny’s make big differences. Thanks for sharing your experience and solution.

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    1. You are more than welcome, Diana. Yes, sometimes it's the simplest of things that solve problems we face, especially when God is in our midst and at our side.
      Blessings!

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  16. Praise the dear Lord for protecting you and your home. I can't even recall all the times I have done something like this. I plead with the Lord daily for His protection over us. Growing older is very difficult, and I never dreamed how hard it is until I started experiencing it. May the Lord have mercy on us all.

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    1. Growing older is most certainly a difficult experience in so many ways, Cheryl, but trusting in God for His protection and provision will always see us through. We are so grateful that He was looking after us in this recent situation with merciful grace.
      Blessings!

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  17. Amen, sis soo true, how faithfully our Father God watches over us and keeps us safe. Praying Hods blessing in all your doo. Shaz in Oz. X 🙏🏻🤗

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    1. Thank goodness, Shaz, that the Lord is always watching over us. I take such comfort in that knowledge as I know you do.
      Blessings!

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  18. Thank God He watched over your home. That's so scary!

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    1. It was a scary realization, Regina, but thanks to the Lord, the outcome was more than fine. Those tags are doing the trick!
      Blessings!

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  19. I can't tell you the number of times in this past year when I've returned inside to find I forgot that I was boiling chicken for the boys (my two dogs) and I found a ruined pot, burnt chicken, and that awful smell. Sometimes it felt like I was losing my mind. Years ago, I would NEVER forget a task. Now, I set a timer on my phone to remind me.

    Your post reminded me that I need to watch that I don't spiritually wander off and leave my prayers or "God time" unfinished or incomplete. Thank you for both this powerful lesson on mindfulness and for showing me that I'm not alone in this "foggy brain" stage of life. God's blessings, and I'm sure glad nothing more than the odor happened.

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    1. Now, those are some scary scenarios right there, J. D.! I, too, am happy that nothing worse happened other than the odor left behind and that you're now setting a timer on your phone to combat the "foggy brain" syndrome that so many of us get at this stage in life. And we can't afford, as you point out, to put our God time on the back burner. It needs to be front and center in our lives and our hearts. May we not wander off!
      Blessings!

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    2. As your already know, Martha, I’m already ahead of you in the chronological category, and probably ahead of Danny, too. And among the joys that came with the grace of living long enough to become a living, breathing, human antique this long has been the privilege of watching my children and grandchildren to through those stages you described so well. The sweet, and sometimes not so sweet, memories are some of our favorite mental vacation spots.

      But now, even though no one says it out loud, I have become the “toddler” that must be watched out for. But thankfully there aren’t any comforters thrown over the hearth on my behalf—yet. But as you so clearly pointed out, there are changes that must be made in these stages—for both children and adults—if we’re to stay safe and healthy. And as you illustrated beautifully, our Heavenly Father remains vigilant and gives us what we need—like the creativity He gave Danny to come up with that clever, and very effective to tell at a glanc if the burners are off—thanks for that trick. And thanks, too, for keeping the Light of God’s truth protecting brightly. Diane and I Love you guys and enjoy getting older with you.

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    3. You might be ahead in the chronological category, Ron, but your words betray that both Diane and you are young at heart! Isn't that what truly matters? The memories you describe here so reflect mine. How I sometimes long to turn back the hands of time and relive those precious moments again. Yet, they are in our hearts and minds and are here to stay. As we age, may we take each stage and challenge it brings to the present moment, confident that the Lord will see us through it all.
      Blessings!

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  20. You are a very beautiful blessing
    rsrue.blogspot.com

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  21. Thank you for the visit and comment Martha. That post was not supposed to actually happen until April 25th. I don't know how it happened but I reverted it back to draft. You will get to comment a second time. UGH!!!!!
    I agree. Age is a time when we need to be more careful about such things, even our blog posts. My dear wife is experiencing memory loss. It puts a o0nus on me to remember things she can't. Getting old is not for the faint of heart.

    Hugs and Blessings

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    1. You are so right, Jim, that getting old is NOT for the faint of heart. I'm so very sorry to hear that your wife is having issues with memory loss, but I'm glad she has your love and support to help her when cannot recall something. Oh, and I don't mind at all commenting twice when you repost your blog. What are friends for?
      Blessings!

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  22. Glad it wasn't worse. I've done that but not with a stove. I can't tell you how many times I have to check out certain things and make sure they are off. Everything we do through our normal day sometimes fall under questions, did I do it, I don't remember. Most are done though because I have checked them.

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    1. I'm so glad it wasn't worse, either, Bill. The new system is working quite well for us now. I hear you, too, about forgetting if we've done certain routine tasks in our day. We're all human and we all make mistakes from time to time. It just seems to get worse as we age.
      Blessings!

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  23. Well, this certainly hit the spot today.
    "Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you." ~Isaiah 46:4
    I will meditate on this comforting verse from Isaiah today - and every day - as I most certainly need to be reminded of God's faithfulness to sustain, carry, and rescue.

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    1. Oh, Debra, how I need those same words of comfort, too! God will sustain, carry and rescue when we surrender to His will for us, no matter how old we get.
      Blessings!

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  24. oh I do love your new avatar, Martha. so cute!

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    1. You are the first one to notice/comment on this, Linda. Thank you! Danny and I were experimenting with this tech and I really liked what he was able to find and use. Sure hides the wrinkles - LOL!
      Blessings!

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  25. Martha I just thought of that verse a week ago...no matter how old and gray we get...the Lord continues to watch over and protect us. Also thankful nothing caught on fire. Maybe though this forgetting is not just for us older ones but also for the younger as well - I know I forgot many things due to being in a hurry and just not paying attention.

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    1. I love that this same verse went through your mind recently, too, Debbie. Yes, the Lord watches over us and out for us each and every day. Young or old, we can all learn more from Him when we slow down and pay close attention to the things around us.
      Blessings!

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  26. That tape is a great idea. I think our brains are just too full from all that living over the last 70+ years. Every little hint is a big help. So thankful you didn't have a mess when you got home.

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    1. I'm so grateful that we did NOT end up with a catastrophe, too, Pam. The tape on the knobs has proven to be such a help. And you're so right about our brains being too full of things at our age; sometimes so full that we can't remember what we need to - LOL!
      Blessings!

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  27. That story about the stove is literally so scary but I am so glad you guys are okay. I love that Danny used his labeling tool to make those green tape markers because that is actually such a genius way to senior-proof the house. It is so sweet how you compared protecting your granddaughters to how you have to look out for yourselves now too. That verse from Isaiah is such a beautiful reminder that we are always being looked after no matter how many gray hairs we have.

    www.melodyjacob.com

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    1. It was scary indeed, Melody, but it was a much needed wake up call that others, in their comments, have acknowledged to have been useful for them. Enjoy your youth, dear one, while you can, and say a prayer for those of us who are old enough to be your grandparent. Blessings!

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  28. "Senior-proofing" - I haven't thought of it that way, but what an apt term. Life has a way of circling back around. I'm glad there are lots of options available to keep ourselves secure, regardless of our age.

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    1. I can't begin to tell you how many pots my own mother left on the stove while reheating her coffee from the morning and forgot that it was boiling away, Lisa. We finally showed her how to use her microwave to accomplish a safer goal. Now, ironically, here we are having to learn the same. It's the circle of life whether we like it or not.
      Blessings!

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  29. We are doing the same thing, senior proofing our home, no rugs in certain areas, a bigger ladder to reach those things on top selves. Every time I walk out the door, someone reminds me to be careful. Sometimes I do have weak spells which means I cannot be trusted to shop alone. A few months ago I stopped burning candles because there is fear I will forget them and burn us down. I could tell more but it depresses me. It the way love is presented to us older ones...or maybe we are just being paid back for that same advice given to the young. Great post Martha

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    1. Getting older is definitely not for the faint of heart, Betty, and it sounds like you're taking the right precautions for your health and safety. It's hard to admit that there are things we can't, or shouldn't, do any longer, but that's not the entirety of who we are. We can be thankful that God is still looking out for us in wonderful, caring ways as are our family members who love us.
      Blessings!

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  30. Wow, God was really looking out for you and protecting your home and family. So glad that everything turned out ok. You have a really lovely blog. I will definitely return! Thanks for visiting and commenting on my blog! See you again soon!

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    1. He most definitely was (and is), Deb! Yes, we are truly thankful for all His care and provision daily. I enjoy your blog, too, and I'm so glad you came by mine and left such a kind comment.
      Blessings!

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  31. I've been doing things like leaving the hob on for years; I can't blame old age!

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    1. No, I guess you can't, David! Even when we aren't up there in years, we can have forgetful moments, especially when we have a lot on our minds.
      Blessings!

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  32. Danny’s quick thinking with the stove labels is such a practical blessing, and I’m grateful with you that the Lord spared you from harm.
    Your story encourages me to be more mindful in my own home, while resting in the assurance that He carries us, no matter how old we are.
    Blessings, Martha!

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    1. It doesn't hurt any of us to be mindful each and every day, Veronica, no matter how old we are. I, too, am so glad the Lord was watching closely over us on this particular day and that a catastrophe was averted.
      Blessings!

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  33. Bom dia, Martha
    Lindo versículo. O Senhor cuida de nós em todo tempo. Que ideia ótima de Danny marcar os botões do fogão. Vocês tiveram um grande livramento de Deus. Um forte abraço!

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    1. We certainly did feel God's deliverance in a big way, Lucinalva! The tape on the knobs has been so helpful; I'll let Danny know that you commended is great idea.
      Blessings!

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  34. Hi Martha Jane, thanks for stopping at my blog!
    Yes, God was watching as He always is. I've left my burner on very low too and it's scary. ' enjoyed my visit her and will be back!

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    1. I'm so glad to see you here, Mari, and I look forward to getting to know you better through your blog. It is so scary when we forget to do the simplest of tasks to guarantee our safety, but God's grace certainly saw us through in this instance.
      Blessings!

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