Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. ~1 Corinthians 9:24
Don't forget to enjoy the game. ~Quote from G. H. W. Bush as recalled by his granddaughter, Jenna Bush Hagar.
Danny and I still love playing backgammon every evening while we listen to mostly country or Christian music. Before all his health issues arise in January, we would keep score on our kitchen whiteboard for an entire week so we could assess that week's winner. That practice, in and of itself, isn't a bad thing. We are both extremely competitive players, but while Danny is able to lose gracefully, I find myself too obsessed with winning to simply embrace the game in the moment.
I'm not proud of this aspect of my personality. To win, no matter what, obstructs the purpose of the game, period. Just relax and enjoy it!
After all we've endured these last months, I realize that truth more than ever. Life is not a sprint, but a marathon. And living well leaves no room for petty tantrums or poor sportsmanship. Honestly, who wants to play with a sore loser? I wouldn't want to, yet Danny doesn't give up on me. He has taught me so much about both patience and perseverance in this challenging game he's so passionate about.
We no longer keep score on the board to remind, usually me, of my pathetic losing streaks. Now don't get me wrong; I still relish a win here and there, and Danny notices how much better I've become in dealing with the plays the dice give me, but I no longer angst about besting him in any contest. I'm just so thankful to have him here to play the game at all!
Isn't it amazing how realities can alter, for the better, our perspectives on this game called life?
Yes, if we are honest with ourselves, we all want to be winners, but there are no losers when we accept Jesus' training of us for the long haul. Knowing He is beside us and before us, trusting in His strength alone, we can run a steady race until we all receive that ultimate crown of victory in God's eternal kingdom.
So, let's resolve to run that race He's set before us, knowing Jesus is the best prize of all, and enjoy the game of abundant life He's given to us along the way.
That's a win-win in my book!
Amen!